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Jeans: Topshop; Top: Mendocino (similar here and here); Jacket: Oak & Fort (similar here and here); Boots: Vagabond (similar here and here)

Today I wanted to discuss something a little different – self improvement. I think as human beings, we tend to be overambitious when setting goals for ourselves, and expect to achieve them without a plan. The reality of the matter is that in order to achieve the monumental goals we set for ourselves, we have to take baby steps. Lately, I’ve found that focusing on a single small goal every week makes a huge difference, that way things don’t seem so overwhelming.

About a month back, I decided I was going to focus on my skincare regiment for a week, ensuring I applied my night oil and eye cream diligently before bed. I have to say, it caught on and for the past month, my skincare routine has run as efficiently as a German train schedule. Similarly, that’s how I addressed the whole gym situation as well – not by waking up one day and deciding I was going to spend an hour and a half at the gym 6 days a week, but rather committing to running a mile 3 days a week. Sure enough, it was an achievable goal, and I’m proud of myself for sticking to it. For next week, I’ve set myself another goal, and hope that by taking tiny little steps to address the things I want to improve about myself, I can be on the road to becoming my best self.

What are some goals you guys hope to accomplish?

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67 Comments

  1. Kristiana
    April 23, 2016 / 2:55 pm

    Some things you definitely have to start small with and work your way up…especially working out 😛

  2. cassandra dini prasasti
    April 23, 2016 / 3:13 pm

    I do agree with you ! when I realise that I accomplish my goal, then I set another one to pursue. At that term, I tried so hard and I found some meaning in my life. That’s how we should ruin our life. Thanks for share ths 🙂
    Also, your outfit was awesome <3

    http://cassandradini.blogspot.com

  4. Jill
    April 23, 2016 / 3:40 pm

    Great post! Totally agree that small things make huge difference 🙂
    Btw, you look gorgeous xx
    Jill
    Jill D Blog

  5. Julia (The Velvet Runway)
    April 23, 2016 / 4:11 pm

    Great post! I totally agree that taking baby steps is the best way to accomplish our goals. I have a habit of trying to tackle too many things at once then I get overwhelmed and give up! I’m definitely going to follow your advice and take one small step at a time!
    By the way, love your look! The jacket is gorgeous 🙂

    http://www.thevelvetrunway.com

  6. Anaivilo
    April 23, 2016 / 4:14 pm

    It’s so hard for me to stick with certain goals. I find that if I don’t like doing something, I let it go so fast.. I barely can give a second chance, but I think I must keep on trying – I am speaking of sports and fitness stuff mostly :))

    Great outfit! I love the coat and the pants 😉

    http://thewonderfashion.blogspot.com

  7. Alita Claudia
    April 23, 2016 / 4:24 pm

    idk what to say but im lovin the whole look! also your hair! thinking of cutting mine like yours. what color is your ends?

    VVEEKEND 1O1

  10. Cielo
    April 23, 2016 / 7:58 pm

    What a fab look! Love how you put this together! =)

    – Cielo
    Mermaid in Heels

  11. Raysa Garcia
    April 23, 2016 / 10:17 pm

    You look amazing! Love the look.
    Kisses, Raysa

  12. Rams
    April 23, 2016 / 11:51 pm

    You look great & your outfit is amazing xx

    Have a great weekend!

  13. Andrea Tiffany
    April 24, 2016 / 5:19 am

    I like your outfit! The black coat is a really nice touch against the denim. What you said, I can really relate to. It’s hard to feel like you accomplished something when all your goals are so high up there. I’m trying to set some smaller goals, baby steps to help me get to where I want to be. It definitely helps me feel like I’m getting things done. Currently, I’m trying to be healthier, and similar to what you said, I’ve been taking it week by week rather than creating huge unachievable goals.

    ~Andrea Tiffany~
    aglimpseofglam.blogspot.com

  15. Violette
    April 24, 2016 / 7:19 am

    It’s so important to take care of our skin, same for working out it always makes us feel so good! Hope you’re having a nice weekend!

    http://violettedaily.com

  16. Eni
    April 24, 2016 / 10:35 am

    Hi dear and thank you for your visit. I’m a really lover of this outfit, basic and stylish at same time. Nice choice my dear. Check out my blog when u have time! Today I have a new post!!! Have a nice day, kisses,
    Eni

    Eniwhere Fashion
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  17. Shelly
    April 24, 2016 / 11:56 am

    I agree…set small goals and accomplish them one at a time! You look lovely..I must get a choker because it looks so stylish on you…the outfit looks great!

  18. Pisa
    April 24, 2016 / 12:15 pm

    Great post dear! I totally agree with you! Little steps are the best to reach our goals! 🙂
    Your look is awesome! Also your makeup!
    Have a wonderful day! 🙂
    Much love, Pisa ❤
    http://www.inlovewithmyclothes.com

  21. Kashmir & Silk
    April 24, 2016 / 4:53 pm

    This is such great advice !! I always give up when I don’t see any improvement really quickly ! I definitely need to take baby steps !! Also, love your look !! 🙂 Xx

    http://kashmirandsilk.com/

  23. Stella Asteria
    April 24, 2016 / 7:49 pm

    I am definitely on board with you! Taking small steps and setting achievable goals on self improvement for each week is critical for me too this period. My next goal is daily flossing 😉
    Have a great week full of blessings and achievements!
    Kisses,
    Stella
    http://www.stellaasteria.com

  24. Kirsten Wick
    April 24, 2016 / 9:54 pm

    You look absolutely cool in this outfit. My goal in life is to try to live my dreams as we are currently doing by having moved to the UK. Kirsten x

    http://www.thelifbissue.com

  30. Anouk
    April 25, 2016 / 10:32 am

    Cool outfit! Yes, when you focus on a goal, it is reachable and we can achieve anything we want.

    LUXESSED

  31. ootdchannel
    April 25, 2016 / 11:38 am

    Chic style. Jeans is really amazing and stylish

  33. Kelly K
    April 25, 2016 / 12:06 pm

    Looking so cool and chic as always! I love those high-waisted pants! I loved reading about your self-improvement journey/tips!

    http://www.rosyoutlookblog.com

  34. Rach
    April 25, 2016 / 12:59 pm

    That is awesome that you created goals that you can stick with! I’m still trying to find one that works for me!! Also, great outfit!!

    http://www.rdsobsessions.com

  35. Patinka
    April 25, 2016 / 1:10 pm

    Awesome look!

  36. Marsya Aulia
    April 25, 2016 / 1:22 pm

    Love your style!
    Adore your black outer. You’re so cool.

    don’t forget to visit me back,

    heymarsya.blogspot.co.id

  39. Jalisa
    April 25, 2016 / 2:39 pm

    I LOVE this ’90s vibe outfit, Siffat, you look so stylish and on trend! I agree, I think it’s better to focus one day and week at a time, then to look ahead too much. It’s great to set goals, but I, too, believe they should be realistic to us, while still posing a challenge to our own standards, so we operate a little out of our comfort zones. When we get overly ambitious, like you’ve said, we can easily burn out quickly because we were not mentally and in some cases, physically capable yet. One can’t go into the gym for the first time and expect to lift 30lbs, without ever having tried 5lbs to pose the challenge. It’s better to work in increments, which always builds strength and character, so that when we reach to the pedicle of our ultimate goal, we acquired wisdom and inner strength to not only achieve the success, but keep it, which is often the hard part! Thanks so much for sharing such truth and I hope you have an amazing week ahead, gorgeous!

    XO,

    Jalisa
    http://www.thestylecontour.com

  40. Priscilla
    April 25, 2016 / 2:55 pm

    Great post! And you´re right, sometimes all we need to achieve our goals Is starting things with baby steps, this is why I like to live one day at a time! And great look! 🙂
    http://hairandvibes.blogspot.com

  41. Lily Rose
    April 25, 2016 / 2:59 pm

    you look gorgeous! I’ve been trying to go to the gym more often too. I guess baby steps right? 🙂 Hope you have a great week doll.

    -Lily from With Love Lily Rose

  55. Leftbankgirl
    April 26, 2016 / 1:03 am

    It’s so hard to stick with our plans sometimes! Great job! Love this shoot, you look very cool

    http://leftbankgirl.blogspot.com

  56. Kathleen
    April 26, 2016 / 1:29 am

    Such a gorgeous look – loving your chic jeans. You’ve styled them beautifully!
    <3
    katsfashionfix.blogspot.com

  58. Lili
    April 26, 2016 / 3:45 am

    I agree with taking baby steps to approach goals rather than getting overwhelmed. I’d like to take better care of my skin as well. You skin looks amazing! I love that first photo! And your outfit is gorgeous!
    ~Lili
    http://www.thefashionsalt.com

  59. Mica
    April 26, 2016 / 4:14 am

    Love the gold accessories with your outfit, and great advice for goal setting too! Big changes always begin with small steps 🙂

    Away From The Blue Blog

  61. Lola
    April 26, 2016 / 6:25 am

    You look beautiful 🙂

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  63. yuliya
    April 26, 2016 / 10:50 am

    It’s amazing to see pretty, young and determined lady like you! My biggest aim now is to become a 100% healthy eater.
    Yukova Fashion and Beauty Blog

  66. Face to Curls
    April 28, 2016 / 2:32 am

    Such a chic stylish look! You’re right, we should definitely have a plan in motion when we are going to set goals so that we’re not disappointed when they’re not accomplished or turn out the way we expect or want them to. x

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