Sweater: Aritzia (similar here and here); Pants: Aritzia (similar here and here); Bag: Mansur Gavriel; Boots: Aldo (similar here and here); Scarf: Aritzia (similar)
Yesterday when I got home from work, I had an anxiety attack. It was so bad that despite the fact that I hadn’t eaten all day, I felt like throwing up, my head was pounding and I couldn’t breathe. I guess I just had so much on my plate that I just sort of broke down. Since I’ve gotten back to work after my vacation, it’s been so difficult to balance both my blog and a full time job. Obviously they’re both extremely demanding, and I want to be the best I can be at everything. I’m embarrassed to admit that my apartment probably looks worse than it did during my college days, and I haven’t cooked even once.
So yesterday, I decided that instead of beating myself up about the fact that I was a day behind schedule on my blog post, I would just let it be. I went to a manicure event with one of my friend, and then instead of coming home to work, I went out for Mexican food. For those of you who are juggling a full time job with a blog and constantly feel the need to perform at 100%, I just thought I’d remind you that sometimes it’s important to take a step back. It’s important to be kind to yourself and not feel guilty every time you fall behind. And if you’re ever feeling like you’re overwhelmed with a thousand things to do, it isn’t a terrible idea to just go out and do something fun to distract yourself. You’d be surprised at how positive and refreshed you’ll feel when you next sit down in front of your computer.
On a completely unrelated note, I just thought I’d tell you guys that the Mansur Gavriel bucket bag is back in stock on net-a-porter, and I’ve added a link. So maybe this is the perfect opportunity to treat yourself 🙂
That’s an extremely chic look! love it!
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Thanks beauty!
It’s so important to take a break from time to time! Love the outfit you’re wearing!
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Thanks Sasha, it really is!
Wow!!! Cool and chic style!!! ღ
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Thanks lovely!
Beautiful look!
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Great look, love nude in combination with some pop out detail, those shoes are amazing xoxo
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Thanks Ivana!
I feel the same way sometimes about my blog about always wanting to be 100%. So glad you did take a step back and enjoy some social time. Love this layered look and dying over those booties!
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I hope you’re better! It’s important to take some rest and just let down a little the blog, to have more creativity but also to take “fresh air” and think about something else.
Your outfit is gorgeous, as always!
Camy xx
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Thanks Camy. I completely agree, I think taking a break is imperative to not just our creativity, but our sanity! Hope you’re having a wonderful weekend 🙂
Really nice outfit 🙂
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Thanks love!
Good for you for taking some well-deserved time off, Siffat! You make balancing look so easy, I was shocked to find out that you had a full time job (and a demanding one, at that!) Get it girl, your doing an AMAZING job!
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You’re too sweet Joelle. I’m glad you haven’t seen me when I’m a bawling mess because I didn’t get the perfect picture or my blog post is late lol! I definitely need to learn how to take it easy!
I am sorry about about the anxiety attack, I hope you are able to balance between the blog and work. You look fashionably warm and the makeup is on fleek!
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Thanks Meron, I’m trying to find the balance – the Mexican food definitely helped 🙂
Babe, I’m so behind on my blog/Instagram posts haha. But because I’d rather post good quality content than crappy unthoughtful things, I’m going to take my time. I feel so overwhelmed sometimes, but I just tell myself, stop chasing, start choosing, and remember that I’m doing this blog because I love it and because it’s fun, not because I’m a slave to it. So I hope you have many more days when you choose to go out have a mani and relax, and don’t worry about doing everything on your list, we’re human after all!
That bag is gorgeous btw. I love it! Hugs,
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I couldn’t agree more, Lily! I’m always trying to plan my content so I focus on quality as opposed to quantity. And yes, you’re totally right, we’re all human, so we definitely need to relax. Thanks so much for your support 🙂
These pictures are soo gorgeous!!!
You look amazing 🙂
Love
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Thanks Cherifa, hope you have a wonderful weekend!
Love this look & great boots!
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Thanks beauty!
Nice styling combining that scarf and sweater.
Xo, Christianne
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Thanks girly!
I’m so sorry to hear about your anxiety attack and I hope you feel better ! On an unrelated note, I’m utterly obsessed with those boots !! 🙂 Xx
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Thanks lovely, you’re too kind!
Hope you feel better! Love the look!
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Thanks Rakel 🙂
You look absolutely stunning in this outfit. Love this look so much. As far as you have been feeling goes, I am so sorry to hear that you had a panic attack. People really do not realize just how much work goes into blogging and holding a fulltime job for those bloggers (like you) who basically blog at a fulltime professional level but simply do not get paid for it. I was doing the same until I decided to try my hand at making blogging into my career – and I am currently broke and only focusing on blogging and STILL constantly feel as if I am working.
I think it was a good move to just take a step back and focus on yourself – we all need to do just that once in a while. I really hope things get better and that you can figure out some kind of balance. I wish I had some tips to give, but unfortunately I do not, as I am kind of in the same boat.
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You look absolutely stunning in this outfit. Love this look so much. As far as you have been feeling goes, I am so sorry to hear that you had a panic attack. People really do not realize just how much work goes into blogging and holding a fulltime job for those bloggers (like you) who basically blog at a fulltime professional level but simply do not get paid for it. I was doing the same until I decided to try my hand at making blogging into my career – and I am currently broke and only focusing on blogging and STILL constantly feel as if I am working.
I think it was a good move to just take a step back and focus on yourself – we all need to do just that once in a while. I really hope things get better and that you can figure out some kind of balance. I wish I had some tips to give, but unfortunately I do not, as I am kind of in the same boat.
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Oh Rae, you totally took the words out of my mouth. On the bright side, since you are focusing full-time on your blog, I’m sure it’ll grow faster than ever. You are doing such a wonderful job, keep it up and success will surely come your way 🙂
you take awesome pics! love the looks
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Thanks love!
This is amazing. I love it. The booties are divine, Siffat.
xox
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So glad you like them!
love the boots 🙂
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Thanks Andy!
Oh no, I know exactly what you mean about that anxiety attack. Seriously, stop beating yourself up. NOBODY is perfect and nobody is expecting you to be either 🙂 Mexican food does sound great right now… I’m munching on my own home made guac right now and craving a quesedilla :)))
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Thanks Marina, so grateful for your support! Haha, the Mexican food was pretty amazing, dreaming about it right now lol!
In love with this bucket bag! It’s definitely on my wish list!
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You should get it, it’s so versatile and convenient!
I hope you’re doing better! Sometimes you need a break and do something else. You look gorgeous girl! Love the bag! Have a great rest of the week
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Thanks beauty, hope you enjoy Valentine’s weekend 🙂
In love!
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Thanks love!
Oh Siffat I hear you I suffer from anxiety attacks too, they are the worse. When you worry about getting anxiety attacks they end up even more intense. It is so important to find a happy balance, as hard as it may be taking even 5 mins a day for yourself is important.
On another note you look stunning, and I am dying to see you *kisses
Filipa xxx
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Omg I know exactly what you mean about them getting even more intense! And yes, cannot wait to see you too – so overdue!
Great style! Love your outfit!
xx
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Thanks girl!
I feel you babe! I’m on the same page. So I decided to take it easy. Feel better, gorgeous!
You look so chic and cozy. Your style is always onpoint.
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Thanks beauty! Take care of yourself and have a wonderful weekend 🙂
Your booties are amazing! Love this chic look.
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Thanks Kathleen!
Love every part of this outfit especially the bag! So chic xx -Maireem
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Thanks love!
This post rocks! Working & blogging doesn’t leave very much time, so you have to kind of live your life with that in mind. In other news, I really like this pretty & neutral outfit. :]
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Right? It can all get so crazy – so important to just take a step back and breathe sometimes!
wow damn fab look
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Thanks girl!
Everything is just so perfect, be it the boots, or the outfit. On top of that, you are beautiful…
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Thanks Neha, you’re too sweet!
Omg babe! I hope you feeling much better, please take care of yourself and I totally agree it’s so easy to become overwhelmed at times. Much love Alanda
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Thanks Alanda, so grateful for your support 🙂
I want your scarf ♡
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So happy you like it!
Loving your outfit as per usual!
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Thanks girl!
I’ve been on the same boat several times! I stress myself out too much especially when I wanted to put a post up! I’ve learn to just take it easy and glad that you were able to see that too!! P.S. this outfit is amazing! Hope you have a great weekend!
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I think when you’re working for yourself, it’s so much harder to find a balance because you’re constantly pushing yourself. That’s why reminding ourselves to take time off is so important!
Such amazing proportions and I love that scarf! You look beautiful! Have a great weekend!
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Thanks beauty 🙂
You look absolutely stunning babe. Love the entire look. Stay fab!
Happy Valentines Day!
Much love, Len
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Thanks Len, Happy Valentine’s weekend!
Urban and chic look! Love the details and wonderful ankle boots ♡
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Thanks beauty!
Wow, love the layering! Stunning!
Happy Friday. Kisses,
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Thanks love!
Anxiety attacks are the worst girl :(. So sorry. Been there (still are sometimes).
ps I love the outfit. The pants are amazing!
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Thanks for your kind words, Monique 🙂
I think to take a step back and to take a breather whilst juggling a blog on top of life is imperative to the sanity to any blogger, really. I hope you enjoyed your time and the Mexican food.
I’m also loving the chic, warm look you’re donning.
Good luck with everything, Siffat!
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Thanks for your sweet words, May! I had a wonderful evening, and felt so much better after taking some time off 🙂
So true Siffat!! I take it like an advice because I needed to see that! Happy Friday x
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Oh absolutely, Violette! You need to relax to preserve your sanity!
I love the neutral colours in your outfit ♥
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Thanks love!
Siffat, you look absolutely gorgeous, as always! I love that sweater with the side cutouts and those boots are everything!
I’m so sorry you experienced a panic attack, I know how it feels and it’s a horrible feeling. Your advice, however, is spot on and I’m glad you were able to spend some time with a friend doing something fun and relaxing. I agree, distracting yourself when you begin to feel overwhelmed really does help come you down and better prepare you mentally and physically for what needs to get done. Thanks so much for sharing and for this reminder because I struggle with feeling like I need to do everything equally perfect and to be honest, it’s just not realistic. When our attention is divided on so many things that really do need our attention, it’s impossible to give an equal amount to all, some really need more than others. Again, thank you for sharing and I hope you have a wonderful weekend, beautiful!
XO,
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I think when you dedicate so much time to building a blog, it’s natural to nitpick at details and push yourself to work super hard. That being said, we all need to take time to breathe and have fun, because sometimes that’s something we forget to do! Hope you’re having a wonderful time at NYFW, sending you so much love!
a very effortless yet chic look indeed. P.S: definitely obsessed with your boots! <3
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Thanks Melisa!
I’m sorry about your anxiety attack … love this look & your white theme here ♥
Nati xx
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Thanks Nati, glad you like it 🙂
That scarf looks so comfy and warm! Have a fabulous weekend girl!
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Thanks Mary Kate, it’s super cozy!
Sorry to hear about your anxiety attack, but glad you took the time to do something fun for yourself. I can definitely relate to feeling overwhelmed with blogging and working full-time. Love your outfit and that chic bucket bag. Hope you have a great weekend!
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Thanks Vanessa! I’m happy to report I feel so much better after taking the night off to relax 🙂
I don’t know what I love more your shoes or your scarf! Absolutely gorgeous outfit!
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Happy you like it, Caitlin!
Wow, LOVE this outfit!! You’re so beautiful!
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Thanks love!
I feel your pain. The amount of times I had a near-meltdown because of the pressure I am continuously putting on myself is ridiculous, considering that blogging is a hobby after all!
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And to think people say it’s easy! Don’t forget to take time off for yourself – so important to just be kind to yourself 🙂
Oh yes, totally feel you on that, Siffat! I’ve just learned recently to take a step back and just let it be. It’s refreshing to care about yourself for a change and enjoying real life. I always get a lot of inspiration at this time.
Thank you for open up to us! <3
Fantastic mix of neutrals, dear. And I really love your bucket bag!!
Hugs!
xoxo Ira
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I completely agree, taking a step back really does lead to fresh and inspiring ideas which is so important!
Glad that you’re taking time for yourself. Thank you for the reminder to just take a step back and breathe once in a while! I’m also trying to dedicate as much time as possible to my blog while working a full-time job, and it has been difficult. Your looks are always fabulous, and I love your style 🙂
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Thanks Catherine! I think it’s important to give each other reminders – we’re all in it together after all 🙂
Nice sweater and skirt 🙂
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Thanks girl!
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Thanks lovely!
great look! love the colors
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Thanks babe!
Love! Great post babe! x
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Thanks beauty!
You look great! Love the scarf!
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Thanks beauty!
aww I’m glad to hear that you took a day off, blogging and a full time job can get very overwhelming. But on a side note, you look great as always, and that bag is a dream!
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Thanks Yuka! Taking a day off was so necessary, I feel like otherwise I would have lost my mind!
I agree, it’s so important to take time for yourself. I hope you are feeling better from your attack. You look beautiful in this outfit! I hope you have a wonderful and relaxing/recharging weekend 🙂
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Thanks Lili! I feel a ton better, Mexican food cures all 🙂
You have a great style!! I love it!
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Thanks girl!
I feel that taking time to ourselves and working and giving up moments of the day towards relaxing and just simply being, is when you are a few steps closer to being mentally sane (as possible, because I believe we’re all a little bit crazy in our own way). I’m happy that you took a day off and that it helped you and I hope you continue to progress in that sense.
This is an inspirtational post in many ways, so I thank you for that. Your fashion sense is always on point though, how?
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That’s so sweet of you to say, Ella! I couldn’t agree more, taking time off to relax is so essential for our sanity. I’ve definitely been trying to take it easy and not be so tough on myself 🙂
What a great look dear! So stylish and chic 😉
XY Pisa ❤
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Thanks love!
I hope you are feeling better! I know how things get with full time job and trying to have everything as you planned. I tried to blog 3 times a week last month, it was so much stress. I never had any energy left after work and having to focus on my blog wasn’t easy. Blogging should be fun and it shouldn’t put any pressure on you.
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I completely agree. I think sometimes we all forget that we’re human and just need to be kind to ourselves and breathe 🙂
Lovel look! I adore your honesty!
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You look Stunning babe!! I love this look!
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Thanks beauty!
Oh man, moments like that are incredibly tough. Good for you for forcing yourself to slow down a bit and do some things strictly for fun. You should be SO proud of your blog–it’s beautiful!
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Thanks so much Alecz, I really appreciate the sweet words. Hope you have a wonderful Valentine’s weekend 🙂
You have a great sense of style babe!
Kisses, Paola.
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Thanks love!
Loving those boots and you look great , i try to keep up with regular posts on my blog too , but work and studies take most of my time. Happy Valentine’s weekend.
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It happens, we’re only human after all!
I am sorry you had an anxiety attack. I know what you mean. It is hard to juggle it all and feel like you are doing it all well. You are doing great! Glad you decided to enjoy some time with your friends. Sounds like it was just what the doctor ordered! You look so chic in this outfit!
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Thanks Amy, you’re always so sweet. I’m happy to report I felt like a completely new person after taking the evening off 🙂
your viewers will understand. life takes a toll. and you cannot always commit to what you say. if are a day late, its not the end of the world. we all are busy and its totally fine. go enjoy life. we all struggle with the work life balance.
have a lovely weekend. don’t stress out.
xoxo,
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Thanks for the sweet words, Geri, I really appreciate it!
Love the tones in this look! I am dying over those booties. They are so special!
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Love this look!!! those shoes are gorgeous!
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Thanks girl, the shoes are definitely a favourite 🙂
Great look! Love the pants. 🙂
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Thanks pretty ladies!
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Thank you!
Oh so chic look!
Lovin the scarf and culottes.
And your shoes is everything.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
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the combo of this outfit is pretty unique. I love the colors shade and the clothing so well put together. Tons of hearts for you
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Loving those boots and you look great ! The combo is perfect!
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Cozy outfit, as always! You look great!
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I’m so sorry to hear about your anxiety attack Siffat! I totally get where you come from. I think as women we put a lot of pressure on ourselves, it can be with work, kids, physical appearance… Actually I think in most of the cases we want to reach these impossible expectations that society is imposing on us.
It’s very hard to let go of that idea that we should be perfect at everything (for some of us at least). This is something I’m working on for a long time.
Honestly I don’t even know how you can manage to work full time and create so much content on your blog! It’s so impressive and just for that you should give yourself a break!
Lovely outfit as usual! These colours look amazing on you.
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This outfit is sheer perfection on you!!
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take it one step at a time babe. I know its difficult to juggle , but u should follow the pace o ur heart.
Nevertheless, u did a great normcore look here.
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Girl I feel like that all the time. Nothing wrong with treating yo self once in a while. You need to remember that it’s not all work work work. We have to recharge to feel inspired!
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Finding balance is key, but it’s so much easier said than done! I often feel the same way, especially with juggling school as well. Thanks for the tips though, you really do have an amazing blog! xx
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Thanks Vanessa, that means the world to me!